It is okay to give compliments.

While I agree that it is important to not value people solely on their external appearance, I rather dislike how we’ve trained people in our culture to think “don’t tell women they are pretty. Tell them they are smart or strong or powerful.” (Mostly for women, but this goes for men too). I worked hard … Continue reading It is okay to give compliments.

Keep Your Negative Opinions To Yourself

Unless you birthed me, raised me, married me, or have been through life’s crazy battles with me, YOUR OPINION ABOUT MY LIFE CHOICES IS NOT VALID! “How are you still single?” “Are you sure you can afford that?” “Why would you wear that?” “Traveling is for retirement.” “You need to invest.” “You should stop being … Continue reading Keep Your Negative Opinions To Yourself